Sex... addiction

To everyone who thinks sex is a game or something they need

I’m done, I look around and all I see are stupid people… no offence. Try to go to school with people who all they care about is sex, partying and drugs… All I want is someone to love. You know how are that is to find when everyone around me is sexually active, and proud of it… I have nothing against sex, It’s a good thing… in any way. I’m not saying I’m against sex… Don’t Get Me Wrong.

 

It’s just… when you love someone love, isn’t a word for sex. When you truly care about someone… sex shouldn’t be the only way you show it… Sex is something you should only do with someone you truly care about. Not a w***e on the side of the road. People think that need sex to feel good about themselves… I myself wouldn’t exactly know, because I am trying to wait tell I meet someone special and of the right age, like it should be.

 

We don’t need 9-10 year olds pregnant… at that age and having a child could actually kill a young girl. They are not fit to have a child and definitely not take care of one. There was a video on you tube of a young girl who said her baby was a “I have a new toy to play with…”

 

No matter if your underage or above there is one thing that I think we should all know… outside of STDS and other things you can get… That sex is a bound between two people, like marriage. There is only one, or should be. You should never rush into anything… Sex is like candy you eat one piece and you want more… When you eat to much candy you become fat…. You hate you body. When you have to much sex with to many people, you will also hate you body.

 

Just like food sex can be addictive. When you eat all the candy there is nothing left. When you sleep around… you will end up alone. Get more candy… get more men/woman… you can kill yourself. Overweight… deities… clogged arteries‘… Sex… STDS

 

Even though this had been said many times… I wanted to say something to, I am a sixteen year old female in high school, I’m not ugly and I could date anyone and probably have sex with anyone if I wanted too… No I’m not dating anyone (I’m not really looking). I just am tired of people online and in real life thinking a relationship revolves around sex… it’s like saying that if someone will not sleep with you every night you will dump them… that isn’t love… it’s addiction, and you are not addicted to that or any person. You addicted to you’re the feeling you get, which will never be love.

Author's Note

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Reviews

[Eagle Cruagh]

Ashley, I just had to jump in here and sound
off, because you have written such a timely
article.
Someone mentioned typos or mistakes. The truth
is, your message comes accross loud and clear.

Some , if not all of the best writers in Cafe have
sounded off on your article. This in itself is amazing.
Your story is good and sound, it is as good today as
it was 100 years ago. Your message will not be lost.

You have attempted to prevent heartache and pain.
You have prevented untold unwanted pregnancies
with your writing and you have caused many of we
older people to stop and consider that your views
are as important to us as they are to kids.

Congratulation on a well written story, but most
importantly for a lesson that hopefully will prevent
much frivolous behavior and future grief.

----- Eagle Cruagh

[Zachary_James]

Good job

[The Analog Kid]

I admit that the title caught my attention. You are very wise. Hopefully you helped someone that read this. Keep fighting the good fight:)

Patrick

[Nianque]

I agree with a lot your statements. Your messages comes across concise. I noticed you also included emotional and physical consequences of sex. People usually only think of themselves when having sex but that doesn't stop them for searching for the feeling. That feeling requires love too. Very deep write. Thank you for sharing.

[Desert Dreamer]

This is a big subject and you have done very well with it. We are all sexual beings and we all should make our own choices about sex and love, and of course, teach our children about sex. I am tired of these abstinance only programs, I think teenagers need all the information so they can make intelligent choices.

[IAmFiyah]

Damn...that was deep.

[Princepessa]

You should like, publish some stuff and become a really popular writer and then publish this in someway, I dont know how because you will get the message across with this and people will be encouraged not to love sex but to love the person if you get what i meam and yeah, its gr8

[SamBug]

This was good. Thank you so much for sharing.

[John O'Toole]

My opinion is that you are going off what people are like in high school. Alot of teenagers sound like what you are explaining. I don't think sex is a bad thing. Now when someone is having sex with a new person everyday in my opinion that is a sex addict. I don't think people having sex is a bad thing, as long as its safe. I know some people think that teenagers are too young to have sex(well 16 to 18) any younger than 16 is too young in my opinion.

I do respect your opinion, and you do carry a valid point, and you do write it very well. I just have to disagree at some points.

[Mauricio Montoya]

great job on this write. You never fail to amaze me.
keep on writing