Teen Life Forum Friend or Foe?

Hi everyone. Well i am having a lot of problems with friends. My best friends is just too annnoying. She makes me do everything with her when i want to go with a another friend. And then she blames every little problem on me.

But the thing i mostly hate is that she gets mad at me for every little thing i do wrong. How do i tell her that i am just me and she can not change me? And that i am not perfect? I tried to talk to her but its like she is blocking me out.

Help! Please!

And what do i do when my friends hate me? I really need help.

ultimate sad face, imyself would just try and talk to her to get her to know that u dont like what she's doin and to the friends that hate u find out why they hate u and if its ur falt apoligise if its not and they just dont like u, tell them to hop off cause ur a cool person and dont deserve to be hated, thats what i would do.

I know have a problem with one of my friends she just wont talk to me and she wont tell me why? sad face:(

First of all. You need to talk to your friend. Find out if it is something you have done or something you can fix. It is more likely just a stage. Your friend probalay doesn’t mean to act like this but maybe can’t help herself. There may be an underlining problem. Step one is to find out.

If there is nothing there. And if they continue to do this. Then you need to call it a day. Find new friends. It�s better to be a loner. Then to be around people you can�t trust.

I have been there with my friends. I used to have a lot. But not many anymore. Things change. People change. You realize that as you grow up. Nothing can ever stay the same. I barely have any of the same friends that I did when I was growing up. Now I just have a few close friends. And it�s better than having loads that don�t even like you.