Men are men. They never realize that most women are sensitive . They were born that way and they tend to have a tender heart. Women, especially "a single mother" they have to force to be strong and to be perseverance. If not, how could they raise their children? But men tend to perceived women in the wrong way. To be able to be a survivor especially for a single mother, weput our "mask" because if we show our weaknesses or if we are passimist how could we survived? how could we feed our children? But men they tend to think that we women are " feminist."