J A Lauder

I'm never sure what to say here. I'm a complete stranger to all of you, and you're complete strangers to me, but I am very much a people person. I will talk to anyone and everyone, I genuinely try never to judge and accept individuals as they come. I'm a very hopeful person and try and share a little happiness with people I meet, which is increasingly difficult sometimes, with the way the world works. I try to focus on the bright side of things and the good side of people. It doesn't mean I'm naive or shallow, it means I try not to let things get me down. Have some lyrics that might describe my philosophy better:

The Warmth - Incubus

I'd like to close my eyes, go numb
But there's a cold wind coming from
The top of the highest high-rise today.
It's not a breeze 'cause it blows hard.
Yes and it wants me to discard the humanity I know,
Watch the warmth blow away.

So don't let the world bring you down.
Not everyone here is that fucked up and cold.
Remember why you came and while you're alive
Experience the warmth before you grow old.

So do you think I should adhere to that pressing new frontier?
And leave in my wake a trail of fear?
Or should I hold my head up high
And throw a wrench in spokes by
Leaving the air behind me clear?

So don't let the world bring you down.
Not everyone here is that fucked up and cold.
Remember why you came and while you're alive
experience the warmth before you go.

So don't let the world bring you down.
Not everyone here is that fucked up and cold.
Remember why you came and while you're alive
experience the warmth before you grow old.

Before you grow old.
Where did it go?

I hope that helps you.